Today, i married my better half.
They say, it will feels like a bunch of butterflies dancing in your belly filled with content and excitement burst along the life changing experience. i disagree.. it was understated, the real feeling is rather beautifully explainable.
I still remember a close friend of mine once asked me, how am i know/sure he is the one? i scratched my head for a while thinking how to answer that 1 simple, yet so hard question until i finally came out with an answer which was.. "you don't know (as nothing is certain in life), you just gotta feel it deep in your soul. when you trust someone so much with all the love you have.. to invest yourself in such a huge commitment just feels like the right thing to do"
There are times when we both struggle to like each other with all the differences that the two of us have, but we still find our way to share the same vision to build our little empire called Family.
as cliché as it sounds, but that's how i know he is the one i need to marry. we have both witness the ugliest side of each other and yet refuse to give up on us, we learn as we grow.
i have always believed finding Happiness in every relationship require tremendous amount of effort of two.
My heart pumping fast to the seconds i finally say.. I DO
I feel nothing but incredibly blessed and beyond grateful to have embark in this new chapter of life which just about to begin. I'm curious and excited at the same time, thinking about how we gonna roll and what the future have instore. i can't promise you a marriage without conflicts, but I DO.. promise you to go thru each problems and conflicts in life together.. as one
To Trust
To Love
To Respect
Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours
(Ludwig van Beethoven, Immortal Beloved)
Photo by : Tropics Bali
Captured by : Adi S
Make up by : Zevinnia
Wardrobe by : Desi Phan
PS : my heart giggle as i can now proudly call you, husband :)
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