Legitimate fears

I believe each and individual of us do fears certain thing in life or even live in fears, so am i.
and if i gotta nominate my personal top 3 Legitimate fears that scares me most or often spin in my head, that's gotta be :

•  Death, 

Clearly i understand it's the stage of life that everyone of us will go thru 1 day, be it sooner or later.
but what fear me most is to cope with the lost of loved ones itself, specifically 'sudden death' under unforeseen circumstances.
to my most honest.. that is the most terrifying moment, been there.. felt that.. it really takes a long time to pick up yourself from the dark and trying hard to gather all the shattered/broken pieces.

•  Parental Fail , 

as crazy as i am, dying to have and raise my own babies and be a great role model for my future kids. i often ask myself
'how sure are you that you're gonna be a great mom (say, as great as how my mom has brought me up?)'
what if my daughter isn't as good or obedient as any other, gone wild, sleep with some random guys on the streets?
what if my son end up as a rapist or drug dealer? and all of the sudden my head flooded with the 'What if' real life horror. looking at the society these days make it even scarier.

•  Victim of Crime Act, 

i doubt further elaboration needed here, who isn't fear of walking in an empty dark street? staying home alone with zero neighbour live around? and a lot more other condition that may chance/trigger criminal act to occur